Why Do Women Always Claim They Have Been Used And Dumped Once A Guy Leaves Them?

It's so common for women to make such comments whenever a guy decides to end an affair with them: "You think you can use and dump me", "he used and dumped me"? What do they really mean by" use and dump "? Is it that the guy had sex with her and left her? If yes, didn't she enjoy the sex too? Is it only the man that enjoys sex? If it's because of it, I don't think it's right to claim that a guy used and dumped a girl. More so, the girl must have enjoyed lots of money, outings, clothes, jewellery, including sex while the relationship lasted, so why cry foul when the guy decides to end the affair by claiming that the guy dumped her after using her. I haven't heard where a guy claimed that he was used and dumped. Only women say that. Babes what do u mean by being used and dumped? Guys has a girl ever told you that you used and dumped her?

It's annoying when some ladies use such words. A man looking to commit will want to see ample signs of honesty,integrity,trustworthiness,thrift, sensitivity,sexuality,physical fitness, wholesome values and NOT--sluttiness, and other character traits. The sad truth is that the vast majority of Nigerian women are simply unworthy of commitment.They are washed up party girls, who spent their attractive years drinking and sleeping with every good looking douchebag that hit on her.When she realizes her looks are starting to fade,only then does she start looking for a sucker to rope into commitment.By then she is nearly worthless as a wife and mother. If you ain't got good qualities,you should be expecting to get humped,pumped and dumped nearly every time...